Hmmm…. I’m just going to say it, I
WAS AN OOPS BABY. There, I got it off my chest. Although my dad will tell you
that I was a “blessing” we all know what he really means. I have two older
brothers, Ryan and Kevin, who are 31 and 29 respectively. So needless to say,
by the time baby Hannah came into this beautiful world, my brothers were
already best friends. Not only was I just forming sentences by the time they
entered middle school, but what adolescent boys want to be best friends with
their baby sister? As time went on, my brothers eventually moved on to college,
leaving me at home with my parents. Since I was the only child living at home
for a long time, I became very close with my parents. I’ll admit it, I was a
bit spoiled being the baby girl. Now I do not mean this in the sense that my
parents showered me with expensive gifts because that is not the case by any
means. What I mean is that my parents gave me a lot more attention and support
than my brothers. I think for this reason I prefer learning in smaller group
sizes with more one-on-one attention. I cannot really concentrate in large
class sizes and find that I am much more successful in a more intimate
environment.
All of the time I spent with my
parents definitely had an impact on my personality too. Since they did give me
so much attention growing up, I think that is why I often times like to have
the spotlight in my group of friends. I think without the chaos of having other
siblings at home, I was able to learn more invaluable life lessons such as how
to be compassionate and sympathetic too. I also learned how precious time and
life is after my mom passed away. Sure my personality is attributed to various
factors such as SES, the fact that I am a girl (SHOCKER!), and many other
things. But, truthfully, I think birth order had the biggest influence on my
personality.
My mission statement:
Find a passion and pursue it.
Remember that life is short and nothing should ever be taken for granted.
Spread this idea to others so that they too can live for today and enjoy the
simple things in life. Be true to who I am. Be thankful. MAKE EVERY MOMENT
COUNT. Reminisce about the good things in my past but look with optimism to the
future. And above all, make my mom proud.
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